A Mother's Self-Awareness & Inner Harmony
- Didileia
- Oct 8
- 3 min read
"No-One Owns Another Person's Spirit."
Spiritually speaking, no-one owns another person's spirit, and by that I mean our embodied life-force and creative life-opportunity.
Practically speaking, our very life-energy and vital spark or "pilot light/soul light" that keeps our heart beating and lungs breathing is our impulse of inspiration to be alive and experience the Earth for a while. And no-one, certainly not a parent, owns the life of our child. Responsibility comes to mind for the life we choose to create and help flourish, or not. A life is a sacred matter that is worthy of our courage and devotion; to guard and protect our child until they are strong and capable to lead their own life as they choose - no matter what we may think or feel about it - just as we do in relation to our parents. In truth, some of us are more gracious towards our parents than others. But it is worth scoping and tending to these deep connections of reality in the context of family patterns and cycles because for each of us, our life belongs to us and we are responsible for how we choose to spend it.
Spirit in form walks hand-in-hand; this is who we are! Sacred nature! Natural, beautiful diversity within wholeness! Human Life on Earth! We are inseparable from and interconnected with the greater Nature that upholds us all. From Ayurvedic awareness, we all share our foundation of the five great elements: space, air, fire, water, earth. And we are all compositions and expressions, animated by the three great forces: movement (Vata - air in space), transformation (Pitta - fire in water), stabilisation (Kapha - water in earth). Inputs, digestion, and use of energy are how we live our natural life-rhythm. From Jyotish awareness, we are spirit in form, continuing our genetic ancestral lineage patterns of human Nature, either consciously or unconsciously. Ayurveda with Jyotish provides a holistic scaffold as a longstanding, time-tested, integrated science of life and light, as they are so-called. I love and trust this practical spirituality that supports my whole well-being as an individual, wife, and especially as a mother. They empower me to live each day as sacred.
It seems unlikely that our limited life-opportunity would be about making money and spending money. At least, this is what I deeply feel, and makes sense to me from my acute awareness and discerning sensitivity of life around me. A sensory experience of Life on Earth seems like too precious an opportunity to waste.
I want to use my life-time for deeper meaning on purpose, support my husband on his healing path, and nourish each of my children to flourish according to their nature, in nature's time. I want all three of my children to know that everything they need is always within them. And to trust their embodied wisdom with natural gifts, strengths, and skills. I want them to be responsible for how they choose to use themselves and their individual life-time. They know that they have ancestral backing through my firmly planted spirit and love; leading by my daily example. I also support them to appreciate and look to each other for strength and skill that they might be lacking. In this way, we cultivate a family legacy that is unbreakable and undefeatable in the face of life's challenges, it's inevitable peaks and valleys. Family should inherently make us stronger and more resilient but this is a choice and heart-led, conscious creation by every individual within a family. It cannot happen otherwise.
I wish you many blessings to nourish yourself and your family towards inner harmony, purpose, and well-being. If you need support in this, I am here.
With kindness,
Didileia🙏💜
